In light of the whole Derrick Jaxn drama, hopefully people are becoming more aware about how corny relationship guru's are. They don't give good advice and they only pander to what you want to hear. That's not giving advice at all. If you want some truth and some real advice, listen to Kevin Samuels. That brotha is handing out the solid advice left, right and center. Originally, I lumped this man with others who pander and give bad advice, but after listening to a couple of his shows, I realize that he's actually trying to help. His brand of truth telling isn't for everyone, but it's needed. Anyways, morale of the story, if you want a good relationship, fix yourself and grow up. Realize that relationships are a partnership, not a title. Love y'all. Enjoy!